We explain how to get a real, unbiased understanding of a team by talking directly to engineers—not just the hiring manager.
Here are the core points from the lesson:
We stress that managers have strong incentives to “sell” their team—they’re evaluated on hiring success and growth—so their perspective is inherently biased and overly positive.
We recommend explicitly asking to meet 1-2 engineers on the team, ideally ICs who have been there for years and are leaving on good terms, as they provide the most honest, nuanced picture of day-to-day culture, challenges, and growth.
We emphasize that speaking with the tech lead is especially valuable, since alongside the manager, the TL will influence our experience more than anyone else after joining.