In this lesson, we discuss the less visible reasons people can lose their jobs even when the official explanation focuses on performance. Beyond clear performance or conduct issues, a major source of conflict can be incompatibility between an employee and their manager—differences in working style, priorities, or philosophy that gradually become personal. The discussion also explores how senior leaders may sometimes recognize these mismatches and move an employee elsewhere rather than allowing the situation to end in termination.
- Performance may not tell the whole story: Formal documentation may focus on performance, while the underlying issue can be a persistent mismatch in working styles, priorities, or expectations between an employee and their manager.
- Professional disagreements can become personal: Differences such as technical excellence versus business outcomes can gradually turn into negative labels. Once each person begins interpreting the other’s actions through that lens, repairing the relationship becomes much harder.
- Sometimes the problem is compatibility, not capability: A skip-level leader who recognizes that an employee can succeed under different leadership may choose to move them rather than lose them, acknowledging that even strong performers and capable managers are not always effective working together.
Original podcast link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WaeGfLnRvc&t=24s