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Advise on story for "tell me about a time you had a conflict"

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Software Engineer at Taro Community2 months ago

I'm interviewing for FAANG L3

My story: Coworkers and I were creating design doc. I had suggestion A. coworker had suggestion B. We had a fruitful discussion on pros/cons on each approach. Decided to go with coworkers approach as that made more sense

My worry:

  • it's too simple/not chaotic/severe enough.
  • It ends too cleanly

Is a story like that good enough for tell me about a time you had a conflict?

Any advice/example stories people have used?

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    Coaching Managers & Senior ICs | Ex-Meta, Amazon
    a month ago

    You shared the "table of contents" version, so it's hard to know without the details.

    Here's some advice:

    • What, specifically, was hard about this situation? If there was no challenge, then it's not an interesting story.
    • Once you identify the challenge, you can build your story-telling around this challenge.
    • Collect "supporting evidence" for the challenge. Was your coworker more senior than you? Were you emotionally invested in your approach? Were they? How long did it take you to get to a conclusion? What specific steps did you take to make an informed decision? What was the Impact?
    • Finish off with your learning. You mention that their approach made more sense. In what way? Why didn't it make sense to you initially? How are you a stronger engineer today as a result of this experience?

    Your worry that the story is too simple and ends too cleanly isn't an issue if there was a real challenge.

    The absolute worst thing that you can do is choose someone else's story. As an interviewer, I care much more about your answers to the follow-up questions than to the "tell me about a time..." question.

    Good luck!

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    Software Engineer | Ex-Amazon
    23 days ago

    After the discussion, what was the higher-level/fundamental learning you had from it? Why did you follow his idea? Great conflict stories have elements where two people have different value systems and fundamentally disagree on how something should be done

    • Ex. I want to add more processes to the team to ensure we don't make mistakes vs I don't want to add processes because it slows everyone down

    If the resolution to a conflict is simply "I discovered more information about the task and we resolved it" then it's not a suitable story.